" I have wrestled with the angel and I am stained with light and I have no shame..."
As we die, we are moved out of our sense of individual self and beckoned into something larger, something Beyond....
Unfolding along this journey, the veils that ordinarily keep us separate from our spiritual Source, become thin, and we are drawn near the Mystery. Perhaps as near as we have ever been.
When offered support to access this unique proximity to Source, we find it provides a deep well of sustenance and comfort, expanding our trust and capacity to move toward the unknown and the unfamiliar dimensions of the dying experience. In this way, we experience our fear, our grief, our losses, held by something greater, something at the very Heart of the spiritual world, to which we ultimately Belong.
Dying holds the potential to be the utmost spiritually transformative event in the human life-cycle...
Yet we often lack the adequate support and road maps to accompany us on the journey and help us make sense of the unrecognizable experiences that can accompany this threshold. Spiritually centered end-of-life counseling offers a creative, heart-centered environment in which these experiences can be contextualized and explored, thus inviting the potential for deep spiritual healing where physical recovery or curing may no longer be possible.
Preparing well for this profound passage, requires touching all that we love along the way. This process can ask of us tremendous courage and willingness to stay present with life. As a counselor and guide, familiar with this territory, I walk alongside you, facilitating the voices of this unique transition to surface, bearing witness to and supporting the integration of what arises.
What is asking for release? What is ready to be celebrated? What gifts are yet to be given? What do I need to grieve? How can I allow myself to deeply receive from those who love me? How do I want to live as I am dying? How can I draw close to my spiritual support?
These and other important questions may arise. Together, we will create a sacred vessel to hold the invitations of this time, tending to the unknowns within a deep well of presence and resource.
Sacred Passage Midwife
Like birth, death is a labor that ushers us across sacred waters...
As a midwife to the dying, I am skilled and adept in navigating the final waters of life, and act as an indispensable guide for the dying and their family across the final threshold.
Together, we create a sacred space where:
Grief is the very process by which we transform our lives from a path interconnected with our beloved, to one wherein we can rediscover joy, vitality and engagement, while still honoring their absence...
The loss of someone we love can be one of the most disorienting and trying experiences of a lifetime. Following a loss, the support of the family, friends and healthcare providers who have been our community, return to their lives...yet we are still grieving. If we have been a primary caregiver for our loved one, then we may also grieve the loss of purpose that we found in caregiving, a purpose perhaps more singular and meaningful than any we have felt previously.
Grief is the journey by which we reorganize and rediscover our purpose and identity in life. It is not a sign that something is wrong with us. Rather, it is a sign that the processes of nature are working in and on us accurately. The deeper our attachment to our beloved, the deeper this unwinding must necessarily be. Spiritual Counseling witnesses grief as a sacred space that has a vital place in the unfoldment of a fulfilling life. It supports the bereaved to find resources within the grief that allow space from, and greater flexibility within, its intensity. This leads to increased perspective and meaning-making and hones our navigation skills as we engage the delicate dance between our lives and hearts that grief requires.
Shamanism speaks to that which lies just beyond the reach of our ordinary senses, yet informs and infuses all that we perceive...
Shamanic journeying enables us to access and receive direct support and guidance from a wellspring of unseen spiritual assistance. The immediacy of connection that shamanic journeying makes possible can be an invaluable resource in deepening spiritual resources at end-of-life. As a shamanic practitioner, I will:
Loren has a passion for teaching and has developed and taught spiritual care models for hospice volunteer and staff across multiple organizations. She currently serves as core faculty for the Willow Farm Contemplative End-of-Life Care training program, educating hospice professionals, death doulas, volunteers & caregivers, and teaches regularly for Agape Hospice.
"Loren's capacity to hold a group through the curiosities that live in the realm of end-of-life care is remarkable. Her kind, gentle and poetic approach leaves us all in awe and wonder for the world we are about to step into..." -S.A., Death Doula & Hospice Volunteer
Coming this Winter!
Standing At The Threshold: Journeys Toward The
Mystery of Death & Dying
with Loren Arienne Uecker, MDiv.
January 17-19 at Willow Farm
Friday evening, 6:00-8:30, Saturday 9:00-4:00,
Most of us have never been invited to approach the mystery of our own
dying. In a largely death-phobic culture, we are not often encouraged to
invite relationship to this inevitable and profound transition until it is upon
Our Death lives within our Life, and like anything, we can choose to turn
toward or away from it.
If...we open a relationship to our own dying, how might death begin to
make it’s gifts known to us? How does drawing near to the mystery of our
own dying, as we are living, help develop the presence required to meet our
death and the death(s) of those we love?
In this two day retreat, we will explore what life tells us about what unfolds
at this exquisite psycho-spiritual threshold. Through guided journeying
and personal inquiry we will begin to touch and invite relationship to what
"lies beyond what we know", at the juncture of matter & spirit, life &
Cost: $225.00 includes a healthy nourishing lunch
($25 discount for early registration by December 17)
To register, please email: email@example.com